Presented By Carolina Pataky LMFT, Sex Therapist

BeLove Method & H.I.M. (Holistic Intimacy Method) are a complete integrated and sophisticated approach to Intimacy, Authenticity & Soul Discovery. 

These 3 to 4 Day transformative retreats shed past all limiting beliefs and unlock a powerfully new, authentic Individual. You will connect to your feelings, purpose and passion, becoming grounded in spirit and fully aware of your impact as man/woman, leader, lover, mother/father and/or wife/husband. You will learn what true intimacy, connections, transparency and sexuality feels like. Each day, Carolina combines her vast expertise to help you navigate through specific issues using personal interventions and experiential exercises.  Daily sessions, group activities and context rich classes will help you not only discover your true authentic self, but empower you to become a true warrior in your relationships, your careers and to yourself.  A powerful awakening to the power of the universe.  

  • Awaken your inner child

  • Break beliefs around purpose, intimacy, & relationships

  • Learn tools to improve relationships 

  • Re-integrate the essence of your being

  • Experiential exercises

  • Improve intimacy & authenticity

  • Connection: discover your true soul
















































Some retreats vary by theme, but aim to meet the following objective​​


  • Experience a powerful transformation as your embark on a whole new you.

  • Make lifelong friends that share in growth and personal development.   

  • Build self awareness, understanding, intimacy an authenticity. 

  • Master your life and learn how to create, unlock and obtain whatever you desire.

  • Understand the unique roles we have in our social lives and culture, and how the impact of our culture can affect our values, beliefs, and expectations.


  • Tune in to passions and develop the work and financial success you deserve.

  • Develop the skills necessary to handle any financial, work or situation.

  • Navigate through career/educational transitions or problems.

  • Learn how to create the work you love and not the work you need.


  • Learn what it takes to obtain, maintain and grow the relationship you're in.

  • Learn to recognize and overcome the subtle family patterns that keep you in cycles of addictions, fears of intimacy, infidelities and destructive behaviors.

  • Explore how belief systems and psychological pressures we place on ourselves disconnect us from having the relationships we desire to have.


  • Learn how effectively date and find a proper match.

  • Overcome social anxiety/approach

  • Learn to recognize the red flags that may not serve you or your new partner well. 

  • Explore how belief systems and psychological pressures we place on ourselves disconnect us from having the relationships we desire to have.

  • Learn how to cope with depression, distress or anger after a loss or separation.


  • Learn how to intimate connect with your partner to truly have mind blowing sex. 

  • Ask the right questions to increase sexual communication and discover your partner(s) in whole new way.

  • Fully understand the differences between sex, love and intimacy.  

  • Increase sexual mindfulness and authenticity. 

  • Learn how to connect to your own body in healthier ways. By recognizing the body and unhealthy habits or addictions, you can regain power to enjoy a more connected experience when alone or with a partner. 

  • Get introduced to alternative spiritual practices that will allow them to see and understand sex from a different, more loving and intimate perspective.     

  • Gain a healthier view towards sexuality, new coping skills, and resources for addressing sexual needs.

  • Educate and provide a broader understanding of male sexual anatomy and functioning and debunk the myths in regards to your sexuality and sexual concerns.


Upcoming Retreats


1 ON 1 Sessions

Men's Retreats


are you ready to live the life you deserve?.


                             RETREAT REVIEWS

“It was an in-depth awakening of my emotions!”
Santiago/athletics coach

“Life-changing experience! I was having a lot of trouble adjusting to some unexpected changes in my career path. This was starting to trickle into my personal life. I attended the inner-child/ Breathwork workshop to see if it would help with these difficulties. Breathwork made it easy for me to open-up and deeply explore my childhood fears of failure. I learned how to nurture the frightened child within me. This has given me the ability to face life challenges, with a more realistic outlook, and taken my relationship to another level.”

Maria -  Nurse

“Recently, I experienced a beautiful personal breakthrough.  Carolina guided me into accessing and releasing blockages that had prevented me from real and meaningful intimacy.  As a result, I feel more alive and connected to my purpose, to life and to others.”

“The weekend retreat was amazing. Thank you for making my transformative journey an easier and more enlightened path. Felt so much love.”
Sharon – Web Designer

“I had never had anything open me up so much as what I felt during the retreat.  I had been caring blocks for years that kept me in fear and I feel I finally let go of these barriers.  I feel like I can finally be honest with myself and others after this experience.”  
Lourdes – Therapist

“Thank you to Carolina and Max, through the lectures and exercises it’s allowed me to get a better understanding of myself.   This weekend experience has been quite powerful. I’m incredibly grateful for the job that both of you are doing.” 
Nate – Legal Industry

“I had so many aha moments over the weekend retreat. I feel I was able to let go of so many things that were weighing me down in my life.” 
Jay – Computer programmer

“I learned for the first time that there are other ways of healing that can be so much more graceful and loving with myself in such a beautiful way.”
Kary – Hospitality Management

“Her breath work sessions are incredible, and after every hour spent with her you feel lighter, happier and inspired to become a better version of yourself.” 
Cami – Events

“I attended one or Carolina's weekend workshops and found it both enlightening and fun.  The exercises she gave us quickly revealed some of my "stuck" points and her depth of knowledge made the communication and understanding of the material she presented easy and clear.  It's obvious that Carolina is deeply passionate about therapy in general, men's issues more specifically, and helping others to evolve into their best self.  
Highly recommended!”

Damon - Consulting

"My life has significantly changed after the retreat with Max and Carolina. I have finally been able to start moving forward in the areas that I was stuck and frustrated in my life. I have been finally letting go  of fears that did not allow me to find peace in my life.  I am incredibly thankful for the work they do.  I think everyone needs to gift their selves this retreat and experience it for themselves."
Andrea - Realtor